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For many families, June marks the start of the vacation season. Parents often share the wonderful moments with their children at the beach or pool online. Caution is advised here! Children have the right to their own image and privacy. In addition, supposedly harmless images of children can be misused for sexual purposes. We provide tips on what parents need to be aware of and how they can protect their children.

The term "sharenting" has been coined to describe the phenomenon of parents making their children's pictures publicly accessible. It is made up of the English word "parenting" and the verb "to share". Parents share everyday photos of their children on social networks. This is because they want to share the beautiful, funny or grotesque moments of family life with others. However, they often neglect the child's perspective.

What do children think about their pictures online?

What is funny for adults can be embarrassing and shameful for children. And if not immediately, then possibly at a later date. Depending on where the images were published online, they may still be accessible years or even decades later.

The German Children's Fund investigated the phenomenon of "sharenting" in a study. It found that children have a very clear sense of when they agree to the publication of images or videos. The criteria used by parents and children to evaluate an image can differ greatly. Children often find images problematic that adults consider harmless. The study concludes "[...] that, as a rule, children would disclose significantly fewer images than their parents."

What can parents do to protect their children?

klicksafe offers "Too naked for the internet?-10 steps for more safety when dealing with children's photos online" . You can order or download the info card from us free of charge. Parents can use it to easily check whether they have considered all the important aspects. The info card also encourages parents to actively involve children in the decision-making process and to consider the perspective of the children depicted.

  1. Did I take the picture or video myself? If not, have I cleared the copyright?
  2. Have all the people in the picture or video given me permission to share it?
  3. Am I sure that the picture or video does not show an unpleasant or embarrassing situation?
  4. If there are minors in the picture or video - are they adequately clothed?
  5. Would it be okay for me if such a child picture or video of me was available on the internet today?
  6. Have I checked who can see the picture or video?
  7. Am I aware that I am giving up image rights to the platform when I upload it?
  8. Would I be comfortable with the image or video being saved by others and forwarded to strangers?
  9. Am I aware that even seemingly harmless images and videos can be misused?
  10. Doesn't the background of the image or video reveal anything about the child's whereabouts in "real" life?

Other problematic consequences of publicly available images of children

  • As jugendschutz.net reports, supposedly harmless pictures of children, for example of babies in diapers or children in swimwear, are misused for sexual purposes. Perpetrators with a sexual interest in children specifically search for such images on the Internet in order to disseminate them in pedosexual networks.
  • In the context of cyberbullying, photos published on the Internet can be used by perpetrators to harm children. Understandably, children do not want to be confronted with embarrassing images of themselves. Caution: Even supposedly harmless pictures can expose the people in the picture through post-processing or a changed context.
  • In order for children to be protected from sexual violence and boundary violations, they must first know their own boundaries and rights. It is therefore essential that they are made aware, especially by those they trust, that they have a say when it comes to their private sphere. Children who have been sensitized in this way are better able to notice and report boundary violations in dangerous situations.